Tao Te Ching Chapter 13
Here I wonder. The word disgrace is not to the liking of our way of thinking. The word sounds as if we have lost all and it is time for harikari. But the explaination of the word, the sentance, makes for understanding. There is no shame. Remove the feelings from the results and really everything is okay. Is it then when we have really removed our ego from the world that we are able to love it completly.