fantasy

So I'm wondering if someone has a fantasy about another person sexual in nature and they vision I guess the experience. The ACT is solo but what if the fantasy is manifest in the spiritual realm and what does consent look like in that realm. And is that even a thing.

intrinsic motivation

So what is the motivation behind doing. I find myself wondering if I should help at what point is help needed and good and at what point is help trying to manipulate a situation. I don't know to what degree those whole true so if I help just to help. No ties no expectations just help. Is that proper.